A few days ago I saw a person that looked interesting to me, and because everyone on the internet was saying to me that I should practice, I started deducing and I didn`t get so much. I found out from attire that he must have been doing something sporty. He had his left hand in his pocket so he left his right, dominant hand to do something else. Lastly, he had some mud on his socks. That meant that he came there with a bike. NOT that it was an older sock because it rained that day.
Also, I`ve been watching a lot of youtube on this topic. I also read an essay too from a young woman around my age. One of those youtube videos taught me how to observe a person. Starting from the shoes, going up to the knees then up to the jacket and it`s shoulders, back to the hands and lastly, the face. Then you simply run over the whole person again, from the data you gathered, create three or so theories and from those 1 greater picture of the person. I practice almost everyday but in passing deductions. It is like when you pass someone on the street and look for clues. Not small things like what they ate for breakfast, but what their hobby is, income or even what their primary hand is.
I`ve been having trouble with reading some things. I think there are 3 types of information sources. The person`s attire, verbal and non-verbal communication. I`ve been struggling with the latter. That is because I can`t read body language. I do not know why because I can read attire quite decently so far. I tried to solve this problem. Like I tried to focus on body language more. When you think of it we are so diverse we have different non-verbal cues for everything. Still at the end of the day it`s Austria Australia you know. They`re the same thing but different (sorry for the bad metaphor). I kind of know what I should look for and what they mean. Like the person`s sitting or arm placement. I`m not really that people person. I`m kind of OK with my current friend group that supports me. Because of that I only talk to them so I don`t have a lot of experience with new people.
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